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I flip through

stories doing the rounds internet and all I see and read about mostly are suicide stories.

Interestingly, these people who commit suicide now do it leaving a note making the work of detectives and other uniformed men easy to do. Unlike the olden days were people commit suicide and people/loved ones as well as detectives try to decipher what happened, who pushed them to commit suicide, if someone actually killed them and made it look like suicide or the people behind their deaths.

So do we now use this “new trend” to say that those that committed suicide in the past (before the internet age) and people thought they were killed or framed up to do so, actually committed suicide willingly?

I really don’t know why people who have thousands of reasons to stay alive decide to kill themselves for one reason- Ogefash

People are now readily comfortable with taking their own lives when no one is trying to kill them; a life that they didn’t create. Some of the notes left by those that commit suicide range from “My boyfriend/girlfriend jilted me (You better go listen to Good as hell by Lizzo), my mum/dad wont want me to change religion, I was expelled from school, I am a failure (According to, Thomas Edison, a famous inventor, failed 10,000 times but never gave up; so what the heck is wrong with you), I have terrible school grades, Oh I think I am worthless…” The most recent in my country is a lady that killed herself and dropped a note where she stated “Life is not worth living for.”

Madu (People), biko (please) life is worth living for. You need to fight that Grave call regardless challenges- Ogefash-

I wish all these people committing suicide would appear to one or two people still living, and tell the next suicide attempters if they were able to get fulfillment, the peace of mind and the rest they so yearn for after killing themselves. Well I wish I could provide an answer to that, but sorry I do not have an answer because for me to be writing this article that means I haven’t committed suicide and wont be doing that anyway; so bitches be pressed.

I really wish those that committed suicide would let people know what is at the other side of life; if there is really anything there for them at the other side of life.

Well I must say that suicide topic is one issue I try to avoid because like the saying in the bible in 1 Corinthians 10:12 “Let him that thinketh he standeth, take heed lest he falls” What am I trying to say, there is a way you can go about saying that you would never commit suicide but end up doing it easily. I have heard stories of people who kept on telling people that they can never commit suicide, meanwhile they were planning to do so.

Follower: Hi Ogefash I am tired of life, I always feel like committing suicide!

So that brings me to the question I would love to ask all readers of this article

  1. What can make you commit suicide?
  2. What can make you not to commit suicide?

For me

  1. Nothing can make me commit suicide. I search around and see that there are lot of haters and bitches (In the voice of Cardi B– “Bitches be pressed“) who don’t want to see good things come out of me, they don’t want to see me writing, they don’t want to hear about Ogefash (But you know that ain’t possible, type OGEFASH on Google and here is what would pop up- Some even wish I was dead, but Chukwu ekwene (as in God forbids it). So if God didn’t kill me when enemies are trying hard to, so why make the work easier for them, why make them happy, why make their wish come through by killing myself; Olorun maje, Chukwu Aju (As in God forbid). So, nothing can make me commit suicide. I wont, regardless the struggles, challenges, shits people throw at me, they are only meant to make me stronger. An in that strength and determination comes my victory. Remember a song by Wizkid “Oluwa loni” that says “Suffer doesn’t kill you, it only makes you stronger” Stay strong please!
  2. I wont commit suicide because the “One” who gives and takes life has not taken my life and has not given up on me; so why give up on myself. Why kill myself when God did not kill me and has not allowed the evil ones succeed in their attempt to. So, please, I reiterate, there are indeed thousands of reasons to stay alive and there is just one reason you want to kill yourself. Por favor (Please), choose wisely! Stay alive! Fulfil your dreams!


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Ogefash's Styl

Born in the 80’s, Ogefash picked up writing early in her secondary school days at International School, University of Lagos (Unilag). She took it professionally after her university days at the University of Lagos where she graduated from the Department of Mass Communication. She is a writer of several short stories some of which have been published in the magazines. Some of her popular stories are: A Night to Remember, The Special Gift, Haunted, Preparing Ahead of Time amongst others. Her novel "Looming Danger" published in December 2015, was highly recommended by people. She has worked with several media outlets some of which are Spur Magazine and Upcoming Magazine. She is an educationist. With her love for children, she took up the task of supervising and taking care of children at the After School Department of Heritage School before her resignation. Her unique strory telling and song teaching skills endeared her more to the kids she worked with. Ogefash is a goal getter, a pace setter and always strives for excellence. She likes to impact and solve problems in a creative way regardless how challenging they may be. She has in-depth knowledge in reporting, editing, social media and other media related works. She is a seasoned writer and very passionate about her work. Interestingly, her blog is the first in Nigeria to start reviewing Nigerian and foreign movies and also write the movies' plots scene by scene. Ogefash blog is also the first to translate songs, interprete and give a full detailed analysis about music and artistes in Nigeria, Africa and America before other blogs started emulating her style. While other blogs provided just music lyrics alone, we took it higher by not only providing lyrics, but translating, interpreting and analyzing as well. It is also the first blog to give detailed analysis of adverts. Interestingly, Ogefash blog also known as Ogefash Photo Blog is the first blog all over the world to blog with lots of interesting pictures to support all articles. Ogefash says "I don't keep male friends because they always say "sex" is part of friendship. I don't keep female friends because they are always bitchy. I only keep people I can call more than a friend!" Ogefash has an affinity for TV reality shows. In 2018, she represented Nigeria in the PanAfrican TV reality game show "The Maltavator Challenge" powered by Nigeria's number one malt drink packed full of energy giving vitamins B1, B2, B3 and B6;Malta Guinness. The show brought together four African countries Nigeria, Ghana, Ethiopia and Coted'ivoire who competed for the grand prize of 20,000 dollars. Undaunted by any task in her field, Ogefash is highly energetic and creative. She is a rare gem and a gift to this generation.

This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Iya jh

    Ounpe! That’s their business, let them be committing suicide na; Aiye sun wo no ni ye; rubbish people!
    God forbid “me” o to commit suicide; for what na?
    As I am like this, I can’t commit suicide no matter the troubles; I no say I go overcome am.

    1. Ogefash's Styl

      Thanks @Iya jh for dropping your thought on talk with Ogefash show titled “Suicide.”
      Remember to follow Ogefash blog, like and share our content @ogefash We love U#Always.

  2. Dapo

    Hi @ IyaJh; you shouldn’t talk like that. Yeah, suicide is not a good option, but then you really don’t know their troubles. Rather than comment rubbish here, why not just pray for them so that they do not commit such act.

    1. Ogefash's Styl

      Thanks @Dapo for dropping your thought on the talk show with Ogefash titled “Suicide”.
      Remember to follow Ogefash blog, like and share our content @ogefash We love U#Always.

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