YES! YES! YES! Children lie a lot
To “lie” means to say words that are not true or words that are false. Children have over time become skilled liars, they are now even better liars than the adults. They tell lies without thinking twice.
So the question is, where do they pick up such habit? I know some of you would say it’s from peers or outside their homes, but that’s a lie. Children basically pick up the habit of telling lies from their homes. It could be that their parents, siblings, aunties, uncles, relatives, whoever they live with, tell lies. And since the lies are told constantly in their presence, they pick up the habit of telling lies as well. I am not however disputing the fact that they don’t pick up the habit of telling lies from peers or outside their homes, but it starts majorly from their homes.
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One day, a little girl called my number and pleaded with me to lie to her mum. Even though I was short of words at that moment for her, but I was not surprised. Because her mum tells lies also. Anytime I call her, in the presence of her child, she would always say, they are on their way and will even hand her phone to her child to say they are very close by, meanwhile they are still indoor and perhaps not even close to leaving the house.

So, dear families and friends, telling lies is not a good thing, especially in front of children, so, the next time you want to tell a lie and you feel it’s compulsory to do so and you believe you can’t make a statement without telling lies, please visit the ‘other room’ where you know your children will not be able to ear you, even if they glue their ears to the door. Thanks
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Ogefash's Styl

Born in the 80’s, Ogefash picked up writing early in her secondary school days at International School, University of Lagos (Unilag). She took it professionally after her university days at the University of Lagos where she graduated from the Department of Mass Communication. She is a writer of several short stories some of which have been published in the magazines. Some of her popular stories are: A Night to Remember, The Special Gift, Haunted, Preparing Ahead of Time amongst others. Her novel "Looming Danger" published in December 2015, was highly recommended by people. She has worked with several media outlets some of which are Spur Magazine and Upcoming Magazine. She is an educationist. With her love for children, she took up the task of supervising and taking care of children at the After School Department of Heritage School before her resignation. Her unique strory telling and song teaching skills endeared her more to the kids she worked with. Ogefash is a goal getter, a pace setter and always strives for excellence. She likes to impact and solve problems in a creative way regardless how challenging they may be. She has in-depth knowledge in reporting, editing, social media and other media related works. She is a seasoned writer and very passionate about her work. Interestingly, her blog is the first in Nigeria to start reviewing Nigerian and foreign movies and also write the movies' plots scene by scene. Ogefash blog is also the first to translate songs, interprete and give a full detailed analysis about music and artistes in Nigeria, Africa and America before other blogs started emulating her style. While other blogs provided just music lyrics alone, we took it higher by not only providing lyrics, but translating, interpreting and analyzing as well. It is also the first blog to give detailed analysis of adverts. Interestingly, Ogefash blog also known as Ogefash Photo Blog is the first blog all over the world to blog with lots of interesting pictures to support all articles. Ogefash says "I don't keep male friends because they always say "sex" is part of friendship. I don't keep female friends because they are always bitchy. I only keep people I can call more than a friend!" Ogefash has an affinity for TV reality shows. In 2018, she represented Nigeria in the PanAfrican TV reality game show "The Maltavator Challenge" powered by Nigeria's number one malt drink packed full of energy giving vitamins B1, B2, B3 and B6;Malta Guinness. The show brought together four African countries Nigeria, Ghana, Ethiopia and Coted'ivoire who competed for the grand prize of 20,000 dollars. Undaunted by any task in her field, Ogefash is highly energetic and creative. She is a rare gem and a gift to this generation.