ADESUA WELLINGTON’S MESSAGE TO OGEFASH BLOG

I just love this her message,seems like she was referring to me, so I decided to tap into it, you can also.

The message is basically for people that are downcast and are about to give up. Here is Adesua Etomi Wellington encouraging you to stay sttong cause things will surely get better when you least expect.

VIEW MESSAGE HERE…

“|This message is linked to my faith and the God I serve but IT IS FOR EVERYONE|.

“I remember a time in my life when it seemed like NOTHING was going right and I mean NOTHING. Everything just seemed to suck.

“I was constantly being hurt by people I cared about and was good to, my career…well, I didn’t have one and it wasn’t for lack of trying, people I loved were going through tough times, everything wasn’t going right.

“It became hard to pray. I’d stay in my house, in bed for daysss. I never talked about it.

“On so many occasions, I’d cry myself to sleep. I constantly wished I was someone else.

“I was deeply unhappy.
Can’t remember how but I was finally able to start praying through it all.

“Started talking bout it too. I Wish I could tell you that things got better immediately. Lol.

“They didn’t but I’d tell you what did happen. I fought every single day for my life. The life I knew was mine. I started to focus on what i did have and became more thankful.

“I started to speak positively about myself and my life. I started to smile more. I started to laugh more and then I learnt the secret of being content in any and every situation.

“I also learnt to give even when I had very little. I worked on myself and asked God to make me better.

“One day I remember hearing ‘ it’ll all make sense some day’. I’m not saying it all makes sense now but things are definitely better than they used to be.

“It didn’t happen overnight but it did happen. Slowly but surely. There’s a reason I constantly try to remember to keep God at the centre of it all. He’s literally holding me together.

“I still go through tough times, everyone does but my perspective has changed.

“We don’t see complete pictures but I serve a God who does.
I know it’s tough and I’m really sorry. If no one has told you before, i want you to know that you’re stronger than you can possibly imagine, even on the days that you can’t get yourself out of bed. You’re beautiful. You’re loved. You’re cherished.

“You’re forgiven and the world needs you. You’re not a mistake. All these are true, whether you believe in God or not.

“I don’t know why I wrote this but I feel someone really needs it.

“Now and always, ☀ Sunshine”

@adesuaetomi

Author:

Born in the 80’s, Ogefash picked up writing early in her secondary school days at International School, Lagos. She took it professionally after her university days at the University of Lagos where she graduated from the Department of Mass Communication. She is a writer of several short stories some of which have been published in the magazines. Some of her popular stories are: A Night to Remember, The Special Gift, Haunted, Preparing Ahead of Time amongst others. Her novel "Looming Danger" published in December 2015, was highly recommended by people. She has worked with several media outlets some of which are Spur Magazine and Upcoming Magazine. With her love for children, she took up the task of supervising and taking care of children at the After School Department of Heritage School before her resignation. Her unique strory telling and song teaching skills endeared her more to the kids she worked with. Oge is a goal getter, a pace setter and always strives for excellence. She likes to impact and solve problems in a creative way in a challenging position. She has in-depth knowledge in reporting and editing. She is a seasoned writer and very passionate about her work. Interestingly, her blog is the first in Nigeria to start reviewing Nigerian and foreign movies and also write the plots scene by scene. Ogefash blog is also the first to give a detailed analysis about music and artistes in Nigeria and abroad. Ogefash says "I don't keep male friends because they always want to have sex with me. I don't keep female friends because they are always bitchy and envious. I only keep people I can call more than a friend!" Ogefash has an affinity for TV reality shows. In 2018, she represented Nigeria in the PanAfrican TV reality game show "The Maltavator Challenge" powered by Nigeria's number one malt drink packed full of energy giving vitamins B1, B2, B3 and B6;Malta Guinness. The show brought together four African countries Nigeria, Ghana, Ethiopia and Coted'ivoire who competed for the grand prize of 20,000 dollars. Undaunted by any task in her field, Oge is highly energetic and creative. She is a rare gem and a gift to this generation.

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