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TALK WITH OGEFASH (T.W.O) EP 1 “HOW DO I HANDLE A GUY THAT IS OBSESSED SO ABOUT ME? “HERE WAS HOW I HANDLED MINE!”

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Hi Ogefash, please how do I handle someone that is extremely obsessed with me , because I don’t have feelings for that person.

Ogefash’s reply

Merriam webster dicitonary defines obsession as

:a persistent disturbing preoccupation with an often unreasonable idea or feeling; broadly :compelling motivation an obsession with profits has an obsession with gambling, or obsession with anything (i added this)

While handling someone that is extremely obsessed, don’t do the following

1. Switch off phone
Don’t even try to do that, because the person would keep calling your line non-stop till it is reachable and in that process, your number automatically stores in his heart and his head.

2. Avoid his calls
This is also a bondage format as the person would keep calling your number non-stop. He or she would feel it’s because you have extreme feelings for him/her that you are avoiding his/her call. At times, such people people wouldn’t even think that you are avoiding them, they would just conclude for you that you are busy or unable to pick up the call for some reasons, and he/she will keep calling you non stop. As a matter of fact- for one call missed- it is like ten times in their heart, so they would call you that ten times. So if you calculate three missed called, you can imagine what that would be in their heart.

3. Don’t cut calls
It is as simple as ‘don’t cut the calls because, he or she would still keep calling.

4. Block number
Well, this would have been the best option if the person doesn’t have your home address or if you are not on social media, cos if you have a social media account, he/she would search for you, and find every possible way to get to you. And of course, a sim card is affordable, so he/she would likely buy another one to get to you

5. Acting nicely
Don’t even try putting him or her in a friendly chat. If you do that, you are in trouble. Such person would think you are already in relationship with him or her. If you are nice to him, it would keep drawing such person close to you; that is, he or she would keep being fond of you. In essence, don’t be nice and don’t be hostile.

6. Shouting
Don’t think that by shouting at him/her, he or she would let you go, no that wont happen. He or she is obsessed with you and doesn’t notice that, infact, he or she would think it’s because you love him/her is the reason you are shouting.

7. Don’t play lesbian

So how do you set yourself free from such person- it is very simple
After you have adhered to the above points, you are on your way to letting go. So, you must ensure you act indifferently with him. Don’t be nice and don’t be rude.
So, this is it, whenever he/she calls, make sure you always say things that would infuriate him/her (How? you would ask, study him, there must be something that infuriates him/her). Don’t shout it, just chip it in in your conversation with him or her. You would see that the call rate would drop and he/she would eventually stop calling you.
And if he/she keeps calling, you can pick the call, but don’t talk to him/her; just be mum, till the airtime is exhausted.

 

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Born in the 80’s, Ogefash picked up writing early in her secondary school days at International School, University of Lagos (Unilag). She took it professionally after her university days at the University of Lagos where she graduated from the Department of Mass Communication. She is a writer of several short stories some of which have been published in the magazines. Some of her popular stories are: A Night to Remember, The Special Gift, Haunted, Preparing Ahead of Time amongst others. Her novel "Looming Danger" published in December 2015, was highly recommended by people. She has worked with several media outlets some of which are Spur Magazine and Upcoming Magazine. She is an educationist. With her love for children, she took up the task of supervising and taking care of children at the After School Department of Heritage School before her resignation. Her unique strory telling and song teaching skills endeared her more to the kids she worked with. Ogefash is a goal getter, a pace setter and always strives for excellence. She likes to impact and solve problems in a creative way regardless how challenging they may be. She has in-depth knowledge in reporting, editing, social media and other media related works. She is a seasoned writer and very passionate about her work. Interestingly, her blog is the first in Nigeria to start reviewing Nigerian and foreign movies and also write the movies' plots scene by scene. Ogefash blog is also the first to translate songs, interprete and give a full detailed analysis about music and artistes in Nigeria, Africa and America before other blogs started emulating her style. While other blogs provided just music lyrics alone, we took it higher by not only providing lyrics, but translating, interpreting and analyzing as well. It is also the first blog to give detailed analysis of adverts. Interestingly, Ogefash blog also known as Ogefash Photo Blog is the first blog all over the world to blog with lots of interesting pictures to support all articles. Ogefash says "I don't keep male friends because they always say "sex" is part of friendship. I don't keep female friends because they are always bitchy. I only keep people I can call more than a friend!" Ogefash has an affinity for TV reality shows. In 2018, she represented Nigeria in the PanAfrican TV reality game show "The Maltavator Challenge" powered by Nigeria's number one malt drink packed full of energy giving vitamins B1, B2, B3 and B6;Malta Guinness. The show brought together four African countries Nigeria, Ghana, Ethiopia and Coted'ivoire who competed for the grand prize of 20,000 dollars. Undaunted by any task in her field, Ogefash is highly energetic and creative. She is a rare gem and a gift to this generation.

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